One of the etiquettes of Tango is that the invitation to dance is traditionally made through mirada (a glance) and cabeceo (a subtle nod), dancers extend and accept an invitation to dance without the need for words.

This gentle exchange allows both dancers to accept or decline an invitation with ease, respect, comfort, free from pressure or awkwardness. If you would like to dance, a soft glance followed by a subtle nod or smile is enough to extend your invitation. If you prefer not to dance, you may simply look away.

At a milonga, cabeceo is the traditional and preferred way of inviting someone to dance. Verbal invitations are generally reserved for moments where there is already a familiar understanding between dancers.

There is never any obligation to dance. You are always welcome to decline an invitation, and no explanation is required, as there are many perfectly valid reasons including wishing to rest, or not onnecting with the orquesta.

There is much more to discover about the Mirada & Cabeceo which we will explore together as part of your journey with ¡Tango Otra Vez!